Last Updated on December 12, 2024
Embarking on a full-time RV lifestyle is a dream for many, filled with the promise of adventure, freedom, and a closer connection to nature. However, like any lifestyle change, it comes with its own set of challenges and lessons learned. In this article, we explore the candid reflections of John and Mercedes from the RV Odd Couple YouTube channel, who have spent the past two years navigating the highs and lows of full-time RV living. They share their honest regrets and humorous takes on what they wish they had known before hitting the road. We found a great video from the RV Odd Couple channel, and below in the article are the highlights. Make sure to watch the entire video at the bottom of the article to get the full story.
1. The Need for Speed: Slowing Down
John's biggest regret is racing from point A to point B, missing out on the hidden gems along the way. The United States is vast and beautiful, and there's no need to rush. Mercedes chimes in, noting that she often assumed they'd revisit places, only to realize that life doesn't always go as planned. So, slow down, take in the scenery, and maybe avoid the temptation to become the RV version of the Fast and the Furious.
2. Work-Life Balance: Finding the Sweet Spot
Creating content on the road is no small feat, and John and Mercedes initially found themselves working more than exploring. The first year was 90% work and 10% play, which led to burnout. In their second year, they struck a better balance, scheduling playtime to ensure they could enjoy the journey. John jokes about working until 3 AM because it's the only quiet time, while Mercedes emphasizes the importance of a structured routine to maintain sanity.
3. Overpacking: The Amazon Addiction
John admits to going overboard with Amazon purchases, filling their RV with gadgets and gizmos galore. He now wishes they had started with the bare necessities and added items as needed. Mercedes humorously regrets bringing John along, but in all seriousness, she wishes she had focused more on researching destinations rather than accumulating stuff. The lesson here? Less is more, and sometimes, your neighbors at the RV park will lend you what you need.
4. The Perfect RV: Goldilocks and the Three Rigs
The couple's journey through different RV sizes has been a tale of trial and error. They started with a fifth wheel, rented a van, and now enjoy the balance of a Class C. Mercedes jokes that it's like Goldilocks finding the "just right" RV. The takeaway? There's no perfect RV, and your preferences will evolve over time.
5. The Grass is Greener Syndrome
John and Mercedes remind us that RV living, like any lifestyle, becomes normalized over time. The initial awe of new locations fades, and you might find yourself taking the beauty around you for granted. They stress that true happiness comes from within, not from external circumstances. So, while the RV lifestyle offers freedom and adventure, it won't solve all your problems.
6. Digital Scrapbooking: Tracking Memories
Mercedes regrets not tracking their locations on Google Maps to create a digital scrapbook. She loves scrapbooking but finds it impractical in an RV. John, on the other hand, prefers not to be tracked. The lesson? Find a balance that works for both partners and keep those memories alive, even if it's just digitally.
7. The Home Base Dilemma
Selling their home and jumping into RV life was a big risk. John and Mercedes now suggest keeping a home base for at least the first six months to a year. It provides a safety net and can ease the transition. However, they acknowledge the complications of maintaining a home while on the road.
8. Learning to Drive: Sharing Responsibilities
Mercedes regrets not learning to drive the fifth wheel sooner and not mastering John's outside duties. This dependency could have been problematic if something happened to John. Now, she feels more confident and capable. The humorous twist? John had to force her into the driver's seat, leading to a memorable and stressful day.
9. Missing Hobbies: Golf and Fishing
John misses his pre-RV hobbies like golf and fishing. He sold his golf clubs before they left, and finding lefty rental clubs isn't easy. Mercedes points out that many RV parks have putt-putt, but John insists it doesn't count. The moral? Keep your hobbies alive to maintain a sense of normalcy and personal space.
10. Boondocking: The Great Debate
Mercedes regrets not trying boondocking sooner, while John jokes about leaving her in the wilderness to see how she fares. Mercedes loves the idea of staying at truck stops and Walmarts, but John insists that's not real boondocking. The lesson? Try new things, but maybe ease into them rather than diving in headfirst.
These are just a few highlights from John and Mercedes' journey. For a deeper dive into their experiences and to hear their full story, make sure to watch the video below:
